"I want a love that says thank you. A love that does not tickle, that may ebb and may flow. I want a lesbian night out and a gay day off. I want a love that is kinky. That is sexy and honest and grotesque. I want a love that is wet. I want a love that is ours. I want a love that knows the effects of distance. I want a love that keeps the kids up reading and rewrites them lullabies. I want to find that love mirrored in fingers and netted in toes. I want to feel that love flowing through bodies, infectious and lasting. I want a love that begins with friendship and ends the same. Something that seeps across years, into the lives of others. I want a love that shouts. A love moving through crisis. I want a love to commit. I want multiples. A love that lives on a farm in the sky. Even when she flees, the mark is still felt. I want a love that is stubborn. A love that can admit when it’s moving. I want a love that sweats and pulls, freed."